demm actually fjmorzan solved all of my problems,in the end all i had to do was use suse windows writer, rename the iso to .raw, thats the most easiest way to do it, i was running around trying different methods and doing so much to get it to work, and the docs mentioned nothing of having to rename .iso to .raw whilst using susewriter in windows.i got kaos up and running now,it looks really good, and i was liking it becuase its a rolling release kde focused distro s,omething brand new,and i was ready to make it my main os, but unfortunatly its not just for me becuase very recently I discovered that you can only stricly use 64bit code, no 32bit software, and i need wine ,skype,playonlinux and stuff like that to have my complete linux setup, i am so upset because i know that i am gonna have to get rid of it and go back to the 'buntu distros.
regardless thanks for being patient and tolerating me ,i probably had u burning up behind your monitor lol